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Do You Accept Your Japanese Wife Visiting Japan at Least Once a Year?

Summer vacation time is coming!

Did you know many Japanese wives visit Japan during the summer vacation time with their children? It’s a huge exodus! I understand that some husbands worry that their Japanese wives will not come back to them and they don’t accept their wives visiting Japan every year. However, if you and your wife trust each other, you can discuss it with her and come to a mutual agreement. There are both advantages and disadvantages of visiting Japan each year, so let’s see…..

Japanese public schools accept your children as a student in their classes during the summer holiday. It is totally free. Going to school is a great experience for your children. They can learn Japanese language, Japanese culture, Japanese music, Japanese way of thinking, Japanese people’s behaviors, and many other things.
Your children will be able to make a lot of friends, and meet cousins and relatives there. Their friendships may continue for a lifetime.
Visiting Japan is a great opportunity for her to see and take care of her parents. Because of the distance, she cannot see her parents very often. Her parents are getting older and she wants to see them while they are still in good health. Seeing one’s parents is important.

Visiting Japan costs a lot. Unfortunately, the airfare in summer is extremely high in summer. For example, from east coast to Japan, it costs about $2000 per person even though that is in Y class. If you have several children, you need to prepare thousands of dollars. Who is going to pay for it? You will need to discuss this cost with her and come to an agreement.

After 20 years matchmaking experience, I have seen it all. Some husbands say to their Japanese wives “Enjoy your trip to Japan!”, on the other hand, some husbands do not want to accept her traveling to Japan. There may be conflicts between husbands and Japanese wives. If you cannot accept her visiting Japan, it would be better to explain why and discuss it with her BEFORE GETTING MARRIED.

Visiting Japan is our family’s annual summer event. I am sure that our son enjoys learning a lot of things in Japan. Also, I am so excited to see my family and friends in Japan!

We will leave for Japan next week. If you join our event in Tokyo on July 7th, I will see you there!

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Time: 15:00-18:00
Place: Harajuku Area, Tokyo
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