Three Months Can Truly Change Your Life

Hello, I’m Naoko Matsumoto, founder of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker (TJM). For more than 26 years, I have supported countless couples on their journey to marriage.

Today, I’d like to share something important with you.
In Japanese matchmaking culture, it is quite standard for couples to make the decision to get married within three months of being introduced. In other words, your decision-making plays a key role in moving the relationship forward.

You may be wondering, “Three months? Is that really possible?”

Yes, it is.

In Japan’s matchmaking culture, setting a three-month timeline is not about putting pressure on anyone.
Rather, it’s about focusing your time and energy on something truly meaningful — finding your life partner.

Time Is Not the Key — Deep Connection Is

Many people believe that love takes years to develop, but in reality, what truly matters is how deeply two people connect. Some couples spend a year together and never build a meaningful bond, while others meet, fall in love, and commit to each other in just a few months.

I know this from my own experience.

When I was living in Los Angeles, my husband and I started dating in the summer of 2026, and we got married that October. It all happened so naturally and beautifully. I’m a decisive person, and at that moment, I had no doubt it was destiny and a miracle. I simply didn’t want to let that chance pass by.

Love is not measured in time. It begins the moment two people open their hearts and trust each other. I’ve seen this happen again and again—not only in my personal life but also through the many couples I’ve supported over the years.

Treat Marriage as Your Most Important Life Project

Think about how you handle a critical work project.

If your company gave you an important assignment that had to succeed by the end of the year, would you say, “I’ll do it someday”?

Of course not.

You would plan, act, and commit to achieving results.

Marriage is even more important than work. Finding your life partner is a personal project that deserves your top priority. This is your future, and it deserves your full commitment.

TJM Is Different from Dating Apps

TJM is not a casual dating service. We use one of Japan’s largest matchmaking databases, with more than 100,000 single men and women who are serious about marriage.

✅No games.

✅No casual encounters.

Only people who share the same goal: to find their lifetime partner. This is what makes TJM completely different from dating apps or online chatting.

You will meet people who want the same future as you do, without wasting time.

2025 Is Almost Over — Now Is the Time to Act

Time passes quickly.

We are already in the last three months of 2025. Many men who started their matchmaking journey with us at this time of year are already in serious relationships, moving toward engagement and marriage.

You can wait until “next year,” or you can make this year the turning point of your life.

The decision is yours.

Start with a Free Consultation — We Will Walk with You

You do not have to do this alone.

With TJM, you will have a personal matchmaker supporting you every step of the way.

✅Personalized match suggestions

✅A clear and structured path toward serious commitment

✅Cultural and communication support with Japanese women

Book Your Free Consultation

Make 2025 the year you meet the right partner.

A Personal Message from Naoko

After more than two decades in matchmaking, I know this for certain: The difference between those who find love and those who do not is action.

When you commit, everything begins to move forward. Three months of focused effort can change your entire future. This could be the beginning of your love story.

Warm regards,
Naoko Matsumoto (まつもとなおこ）
FOUNDER & CEO
Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

Traditional Japanese Matchmaker is the best dating and matchmaking service that is specialized for single international professionals and Japanese women established in 1999. Please click the link below to get started with TJM’s Free Registration if you are truly interested. We look forward to assisting you in finding your Japanese wife.

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