On January 5, 2025, at the beginning of the year, we held an online workshop exclusively for our Japanese female members who are seriously considering marriage. Thirty participants joined us for this event, which was titled, “How to Effortlessly Find Your Ideal Partner and Achieve a Happy Marriage.

We know that many of you, our valued male clients, are just as eager as our female members to find your perfect match without all the pressure. That’s why we wanted to share a quick overview of our recent women’s workshop.

Commitment:

At the beginning of the workshop, we asked all 30 women to share their goals. Many of them, who had started 2025 single even though they wanted to find love by the end of last year, were really committed to meeting someone special in 2025.

So, what’s the secret to finding that special someone?

“Essentialism” and “Effortless”: Our Book Recommendations

To begin, I introduced the participants to two books by Greg McKeown: “Essentialism” and “Effortless.” For your visual reference, here are their covers. These books, which are easily available on Amazon, offer invaluable insights and are highly recommended for multiple readings.

Essentialism and Effortless on Amazon.com

Just by looking at this diagram, you can easily see what sets successful singles apart and helps them find their perfect match.

I created this diagram based on the ideas from those two books about “Essentialism” and “Effortless”. Let’s see how we can apply these concepts to your dating life.

Let’s break down these two diagrams. The one on the left shows what often happens when people spend too much time with online dating. On the other hand, the diagram on the right represents people who are decisive and take action when they meet someone through a matchmaking service.

Can you guess which approach is more likely to lead to success?

I think the answer is pretty obvious.

A Real-Life Example

Let me share a real-life example of a male member who recently joined TJM in December 2024. Shortly after his enrollment, we introduced him to a potential match. They immediately connected over a Zoom call and have been communicating regularly since then.

When we inquired whether he would be interested in meeting other potential matches, considering his recent membership, he expressed a strong desire to focus solely on this particular woman.

Remarkably, in February, he will be traveling to Japan to meet her in person. Despite being a new member, his commitment to exploring this connection and his willingness to travel demonstrate a truly essential and effortless approach.

For those who have experienced the frustration of meeting numerous women through online dating without making a commitment, I highly recommend adopting an essential and effortless approach.

Women Who Are Serious About Finding Love:

In January 2025, I met one-on-one with every woman who attended this workshop. We had really honest conversations about their dating lives and what’s holding them back. Whether it was tough love or words of encouragement, I made sure to give each woman personalized advice and a plan to help them find love.

Each woman who has had a one-on-one consultation with me has made a firm commitment to actively pursue marriage in 2025. I have personally witnessed their determination. As a result, we can confidently introduce you to a select group of women who are highly committed to finding their lifelong partners.

If You are Sincerely looking for Japanese Women:

While this workshop was specifically designed for our female clients, if you are a man seeking serious matchmaking services and would like to schedule a personalized consultation, please do not hesitate to contact us.

Naoko Matsumoto
Founder and CEO
Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Traditional Japanese Matchmaker is the best dating and matchmaking service that is specialized for single international professionals and Japanese women established in 1999. Please click the link below to get started with TJM’s Free Registration if you are truly interested. We look forward to assisting you in finding your Japanese wife.

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