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Meet and Marry a Japanese Woman: A Guide to Dating Easiness and Challenges by Age Group

The difficulty of dating and finding a Japanese woman can vary significantly across different age groups. Each generation faces its unique set of challenges and advantages when it comes to seeking a romantic relationship.

Below is an overview of these differences, focusing on the general trends observed in various age brackets.


Teens & Early 20’s

Challenges: Limited life experience can make it hard to know what one wants in a partner. Peer pressure and the desire to fit in can also influence dating choices. At the Traditional Japanese Matchmaker, it is rare for Japanese women who are under 25 years old to register for our membership. They are still students or have just started working for a company, so their commitment to marriage is not very high.

Advantages: Greater openness to meeting new people and forming connections. High social activity levels and more opportunities to meet peers through extracurricular activities. If you are in your early 20s, we highly recommend you travel to meet many people who have different cultural backgrounds, and experience something different, and discover the world before thinking about getting married.


Late 20’s to Early 30’s

Challenges: Japanese women who are in this age group feel increasing pressure to find a “serious” relationship and settle down. Most of her friends aim to get married by the age of 29, and her parents also wish for her to marry before turning 30. If you are in your late 20’s to early 30’s, but you haven’t thought that it is a time to get married, you may feel strong pressure from her parents.

Advantages: If you already have a high commitment to getting married, this is a great age bracket. You may have more life experience and a clearer understanding of personal values and what one wants in a partner. Financial stability can provide more opportunities for dating and relationships if your goal is marriage.



Challenges: Meeting younger women may be ideal for most men, however, women also would like to meet men who are close to their age range. If you are in your 40’s, the age gap that they can accept as a partner is less than 7 years. This is because most Japanese women who are in their early 30’s would like to have children after getting married.

Advantages: If you are highly committed to getting married, meeting Japanese women who are under 40 years old can be ideal, as they often share a similar level of commitment. They tend not to want to spend too much time making decisions, understanding that time is valuable for them. This is especially true for Japanese women who wish to have children and are looking to meet men with the same objectives.


50’s and Beyond

Challenges: If you are in your 50’s and would like to have children after getting married, the age gap becomes a significant concern. You may look for Japanese women who are under 35 years old; however, Japanese women under 35 rarely accept men if there is more than a 10-year age gap.

Furthermore, for men in their 50’s who want to have children, we request that they undergo a medical examination at a clinic to determine their ability to have children and submit proof of this.

Advantages: If you are in your 50’s and don’t want to have any more children, and are looking for Japanese women in the same age group as you, you have many opportunities to meet such women.


We have many nice single Japanese women who are in their 40’s and 50’s in Japan and some in the US. They are all mature and sophisticated traditional Japanese women.


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In summary, as shown above, the difficulty of matching varies by generation. Our matchmaking company has the highest number of male members in their 30’s to 40’s, and thus, we primarily introduce these men to women in their 30’s.


For male members in their 50’s who want to marry women in their 30’s because they desire children, it becomes significantly more challenging.

However, for male members in their 50’s who don’t want to have children and wish to meet and marry Japanese women close to their own age, in their 40’s to 50’s, we can say that introductions are easier to facilitate.


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In TJM’s newsletter, we provide simple information about registered female members. Also, on TJM’s Instagram, you can view the registration status of new female members.

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Naoko Matsumoto
Founder and CEO
Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

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