Hello, I am Naoko Matsumoto, Founder and  CEO of TJM (Traditional Japanese Matchmaker).

Recently, we hosted a special workshop titled “Overcoming the Barriers to International Marriage,” attended by 11 single Japanese women who are sincerely looking for a life partner from abroad.

This workshop was designed to address the specific anxieties and questions women face when moving from international dating to a committed marriage. It was an inspiring session where these women discussed how to navigate cultural differences and communication gaps, ultimately gaining the courage to take the next step toward their future.

A Surprise Guest: From Anxiety to Confidence

For the first 15 minutes, one of our male members (an African American gentleman in his 40s) joined us as a special guest.

To be honest, before the session, he expressed deep concern, wondering: “Is there truly a Japanese woman out there who would choose me?” However, the moment he met the group and began a direct dialogue, those fears vanished.

The women were equally moved and pleasantly surprised, with one remarking:

“It is so wonderful to realize that there are men out there who are this serious and sincere about marrying a Japanese woman!”

It was a powerful moment where the “sincere intentions” of both sides became visible, creating a deep sense of mutual hope.

The Promise of a New Beginning

Among the attendees was a brilliant and beautiful woman who emphasized that character and personality matter far more to her than race or age. After feeling the positive energy of the workshop, she officially moved forward with her profile registration at TJM.

Once her profile is ready, we will announce it on our social media channels (Instagram, Threads, and X). Stay tuned!

Coming Soon: An Exclusive Workshop for Gentlemen (Conducted in English)

Witnessing the incredible passion of these women has inspired us to create a workshop specifically for men. Don’t worry about the language barrier—the entire session will be conducted in English.

But first, we need your help. What topics would you be most interested in?

One idea we are excited about is a “How to Fall in Love with a Japanese Woman” workshop. This isn’t your typical “あいうえお” grammar lesson. Instead, it’s a practical program focused on what steps to take to touch a Japanese woman’s heart and communicate your love effectively.

Workshop Ideas:

• Heart-to-Heart Japanese: Magical phrases to build deep intimacy.
• The Cultural Bridge: Insights on how to be the “chosen one” by a Japanese woman.
• Q&A Session: A deep dive into the true psychology of Japanese women.

Meet the TJM “Dream Team” for Language & Love

TJM has a unique advantage in supporting your communication. In our recent workshop, we were joined by three women who are certified Japanese language teachers. Furthermore, one of our female members who recently got engaged is also an active Japanese teacher.

To add to our strength, our staff member Tomomi—a former TJM member who moved to the U.S. in March after receiving her visa—was also a professional Japanese language teacher!

With such a professional team behind you, we are ready to help you bridge the language gap in the most romantic and effective way possible.

We Want to Hear From You

Whether it’s a specific topic you want to discuss or a challenge you’re currently facing, your feedback will make this workshop truly valuable.

If you have an idea for a workshop topic you’d love to attend, please let us know!
We look forward to seeing you there soon.

Traditional Japanese Matchmaker (TJM) CEO
Matchmaker: Naoko Matsumoto

Update: Only 2 spots remaining!

3. From Online to Real Life: Our Exclusive Tokyo Event in April

Following the incredible success of our online sessions, it’s time to meet in person!

April 18th & 19th, 2026:

In-Person Matchmaking Event in Tokyo This is the ultimate chance to experience the chemistry that only happens face-to-face. Meet sophisticated Japanese women in a beautiful setting designed for romance.

RSVP by March 31st.

To ensure the highest quality experience and perfect gender balance, please let us know your intention to attend by March 31st.

Ready to be our next success story? With only 2 spots left, we encourage you to reply to this message or book your strategy call with me today!

Your Partner is Waiting for You:

At TJM, we don’t just provide profiles; we create opportunities. Whether you join us as a guest speaker to promote your “successful nature” or meet us in Tokyo this spring, your path to a happy international marriage starts here.

Ready to be our next success story? Reply to this message or book your strategy call with me today!

Warm regards,
Naoko Matsumoto (まつもとなおこ）
FOUNDER & CEO
Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

Traditional Japanese Matchmaker is the best dating and matchmaking service that is specialized for single international professionals and Japanese women established in 1999. Please click the link below to get started with TJM’s Free Registration if you are truly interested. We look forward to assisting you in finding your Japanese wife.

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